Pregnancy Options: What You Need to Know About Adoption  

Many people have heard about adoption but don't truly understand what adoption today actually looks like. It may be something you have never considered before, but we invite you to learn more about the modern adoption process before dismissing it as an option.  At the Pregnancy Resource Center, we will never pressure you into making a certain decision. We simply will provide you with information, resources, and support so that you can make the best choice for you and your baby. 

What Does Adoption in Today's World Look Like?  

Adoption is the legal transfer of guardianship of a child. Many of us have the concept in our mind that adoption means you will never see your baby again. The truth is that you get to choose the level of contact you want with your child. In fact, some of the choices you get to make include:  

  • Choosing your adoption plan  

  • Choosing the family who adopts your child  

  • Choosing the type of relationship and communication you will have with your child and the adoptive family  

What is An Adoption Plan?  

Adoption plans outline the details of your adoption arrangement and include the level of contact you want with the child and the adoptive family. There are three different kinds of adoptions to consider: Open Adoption, Semi-Open Adoption, and Closed Adoption.  

Open Adoption is like a bridge that allows different levels of contact between you, the child, and the adoptive family. That contact could mean visits, chats over the phone or video calls, sharing photos, or getting updates from the adoptive family. In a Semi-Open Adoption, communication flows through an adoption agent. This intermediary facilitates all exchanges between you and the adoptive parents. The adoptive parents send updates and photos to the adoption agent, who then shares them with you. This setup allows you to stay informed about your child's progress while maintaining your anonymity. Then there is a Closed Adoption where your identity and contact details remain confidential and undisclosed to the adoptive family. There is no direct contact between you, your child, and the adoptive family. This option resonates with those that seek closure and wish to embark on a new chapter in their lives. Each of these adoption plans can vary depending on the adoption agency you choose. We can connect you with trusted adoption agencies that offer confidential and free services.

Speaking with an adoption agency doesn't mean you have chosen adoption for your baby; it simply means you would like more information.

You have the freedom to ask questions and explore all your options with no pressure or judgement. Even after making an adoption plan, you are free to change your mind at any point up to the time you terminate your parental rights which happens when you sign the Consent to Termination of Parental Rights.  

Next Steps

If you’re considering adoption for your baby, we are here to listen to your story and walk alongside you. We can help connect you with information and resources to learn more about the adoption process. You can contact us here or text ADOPTION to 417-204-4407.  

You can also visit the links below to learn more:  

https://nightlight.org/im-pregnant/

https://lfcsmo.org/adoption-services/

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